Friday, January 11, 2008

random glimpse into my dating soul...

here is what the free eHarmony questionnaire has to say about me:

Many people, most probably, will be glad to be in the room you're in. At work you make the environment livelier and the banter more interesting, so the time moves swiftly and the experience is a happier one. At home you keep everyone connected because you engage each of them in the conversational action, and as a result they are more connected as well with one another. You make home a warmer and more interesting place for everyone who lives there.

You might also be helpful to some people. There are those who need to talk but aren't very good at it. They don't know how to begin the kind of conversation that would allow them to share whatever is in their personal stories that they'd like or need to talk about. You could make that easier for them with your way with words. Some people just need an example and a little encouragement to come out of their shell and get into the greater fun and personal connectedness that will make their lives so much more satisfying. Again, you might be just the right person to make that happen for them.

So almost everyone will be glad to be with you, you make life more interesting for those you live and work with, and you could help some of your friends who need just a little encouragement to open up and find in themselves the kinds of energetic and warm connections that you thrive on. Not that you are a pushover; in fact, you are often quite assertive. In taking care of yourself you also make sure that others are engaged and energized.

6 comments:

Rachel Schell said...

yes, yes exactly.

you're the best!

Karen said...

That's T...to a T.

Anonymous said...

yup. that would be you.

new york dactyl said...

ah thanks ladies. now do i reeeeeally want to pay thirty bucks a month to be introduced to short people?

they don't have any physical restrictions before matching you... what's up with THAT!

Natalie said...

Well, they've got you figured out, that's for SUUUUUURE. And forget the physical stuff.... I dated a realllly short guy once, and he had the biggest.... uh nevermind.... $30 a month IS kind of expensive. eh-emm.

Anonymous said...

From what I know that sounds like you.